At the end of this month it will be a year since I started my locs. I can't believe it! What a wonderful journey it has been. When I first decided to loc, I tried to read everything I could about the "right" way to loc my hair.
Whether you're white, black, asian, spanish or any of the lovely varieties in between, you know that hair acts as a centerpiece for you as a person. I learned that lesson in 1991 when I shaved all my hair off. I was judged by my hair. So I was questioned as to my sexuality or health status (are you a lesbian? do you have cancer?) So I knew all too well what can happen when you don't look like everyone else. Many people are under the impression that dreadlocks are a black thing, some militantly so. After some reading though, one would learn that dreadlocks have a long history that can't be "claimed" by anyone. Those of the loc'd head share a common thread, I think. Some of us. If you disregard those who do it because it will freak their parents out, the rest of us are going against the grain. Some people have lost or have been refused employment because of the "loc hysteria." So in the loc world there are all variations of styles and looks, which I absolutely love!
So I wanted to post a photo journey of my loc travels. Hope you enjoy and I hope it helps answers some of the questions.
LEFT: This is me two months after having Sebastian and two days before I went in for my twists. It was naturally locking in the Marley dreadlock way, but since I was fat and bloated, this look just didn't make me feel sexy.
RIGHT: I took this picture as soon as I came home from the hairdresser because my momma wanted to know what I had done to my hair (now!) Not knowing what the journey would be, I thought my locs were looking quite fine. Little did I know that as soon as I sweat or forgot my scarf, this look was gone. It's during this period that many people just continue to go back and keep this look. Personally, my time for sitting in the chair are over. I can't take a whole day to talk and get twisted, you know. But this initial stage, loc infancy, is also the hardest time. You're waiting for it to lock and you have to constantly maintain it. You're unsure of whether to wash it, and if you do, with what.
What I learned? It's hair and you have to wash it. Period. You have hairdressers who will tell you to wait three months before washing. Although I am not a cosmetologist, my lay advice would be to find another person. You should wait a few weeks initially, but you sweat, you got dirt, lint etc, floating around. You have to wash. What you need to know before washing, is are you going to twist it back, have it done or just let it go. Depending on your hair type, the loc process takes a bit of time. Since I am thankfully naturally nappy, my hair loc'd within a few months. Some with less naps will take more. That is the journey of locs for me. It teaches you patience because unless you're going to add loc extensions, you have to go through each stage as it happens.
LEFT: This photo is exactly seven days after my twists. So you can see they're already starting to "stand." The Buckwheat phase. Hence...
...get yourself a nice scarf! I bought this one at Gallerie Lafayette in Paris ($250) and was saving it for a special occasion. Honey, this thing is pure silk so I wore it at the store, to bed. Go ahead and treat yourself to a nice scarf because you will get a lot of wear from it.
RIGHT: This photo was taken April 23rd, so about two and a half months. It's pretty much loc's by now. Now I know you don't want to spend a whole lot of money on your hair products, but I highly recommend LUSH's Big Shampoo. The sea salt (and the rest of the ingredients, really) really helps to keep your loc's clean and tight. You can try to make it yourself, but more than likely you will use too much salt and dry your hair out. It's worth it.
LEFT: This is May, almost June. The hair does what it will. During this time I used three products: the hair milk that I make (I am launching it again in the next few weeks,) Knotty Boy and a hair oil. After washing my hair, I used a combination of my hair milk and Knotty Boy, just to twist the new growth. Once a week I added some hair oil. That's it. You just gotta leave it alone to do what it has to do.
RIGHT: Look at my Hawaiian tan!! I miss living there! I digress... This pic was taken in July after much romping through the ocean. No wonder Jamaicans have such beautiful locs. The sea salt tightens your locs nothing can get through them, not even the sand. And just look how my hair has grown. It's so funny looking back at the photos now. I wash my hair now whenever I want and let it air dry. While it's still a little damp, I use the hair milk and Knotty Boy. For while I used styling gel, but I didn't notice that it really did anything. Didn't have enough holds for the new growth.
LEFT: This one was taken here in San Diego in my new messy office in November! Fully loc'd and feeling beautiful. Now I add all kinds of stuff to my hair. I no longer use Knotty Boy, though. After washing, I just use the hair milk and it works great at keeping the new growth in check.
The number one lesson in loc growth: let it go and let it grow. Discover the true texture of your hair. I was so surprised to feel my nappy hair was so soft and has a unique wave of its own. My hair is truly beautiful in its natural state and I can't imagine the day when I might cut it off. My husband loves it, my daughter is envious and even shockingly, my momma likes it. She is straight from the Old South of keeping naps in check so I was very shocked when she complimented me on my hair. She's 70 and still surprising me!
Since Sebbie is always home with me when I'm working online, I have to post a shot of Marley. Another natural head in the Kane family. So if any of you have multi-culti kids like me, share this pic with your kids.
Marley loves her fluff, as we've named her hair, and HATES when I do it any other way. So parents, it's up to us to set the environment where our children love their hair as it is. Yeah, they may break a few combs, but they are so naturally beautiful!
Thanks for joining me on my loc journey. So many of you have sent questions about what to expect, so I hope this helps. Make sure you keep an eye out for the first episode of Organic Beauty Review when I cover loc care on video. Would love to hear about your loc journey so feel free to contact me.
BTW, thanks to Mac and iLife this journey was infinitely easier than actually taking a picture!
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